Oral Sex Tips for Penis Owners

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If you’ve never given head previously or just want to know how to give better oral sex, here are some of the tips and tricks you need to know. It’s important to understand what oral sex is before you start to strip down.

Oral sex is contact between the mouth and the genitals and if you’re more adventurous, the anus. This includes stimulating the penis, vagina, anus or all the above using your mouth, tongue and lips.

  • Tease , tease, tease! Pay attention to their inner thighs, testicles and perineum (the sensitive area of skin between the balls and anus) as these are all heavy with nerve endings.
  • Lots of saliva is a key part of giving mind-blowing head to penis owners, so build some saliva up in your mouth or invest in a flavoured lubricant.
  • An important part of giving head to also use your hands – Gently but firmly wrap your hand around their shaft and use this to stimulate in addition to your mouth (this also gives your mouth a break!)
  • Use your tongue ! Run your tongue up and down the shaft or lick the head of the shaft to create more targeted stimulation. Lick with a flat tongue from base to tip like your eating an ice cream.
  • Stimulate him more with ball play, so try taking their balls into your mouth and lightly sucking, also play with his balls with your hand while you give him head.
  • Try to minimise any teeth-on-penis action, to the best of your ability.
  • Giving head is meant to be enjoyable for both parties involved. Take a break when you need to and continue to pleasure them with your hand, fingers or by rubbing the head of their penis along your face, lips, nipples and other body parts.
  • Don’t worry if you a gag reflex – most people do and most men like it! Try deep throating, but don’t push yourself. Keep breathing and start slowly, depending on the size of their penis. Don’t expect to fit the whole shaft in your mouth.
  • If you are the one receiving head, it’s important not to push your partner while they performing. Dominant and submissive dynamics can be fun to try, but without proper consent or communication it’s a no-go. Don’t force it !
  • Communicate and take mental notes of how he is responding, if you hearing a moan, try stick to the actions that you were performing. Think about what rhythm makes them reach climax during sex and try replicating this.
  • Communicate and ask yourself what you feel comfortable with before climax, whether finishing in your mouth is okay, or If you’d prefer, ask them to use a towel or ejaculate onto your chest. This can be a very intense moment for you both.
  • If they reach climax, don’t be afraid to give them some more gentle licks or sucks afterwards. They will be extremely sensitive at this point, be gentle !